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Saturday, 15 October 2005 |
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Levels
of Collaring by
Carolyn
Keeling
Reproduction
is permitted by non-profit and not-for-profit SM groups
for educational purposes with acknowledgements given to
SAADE
My idea is to find someone to permanently collar
(eventually), after a long testing period with
intermediate collars.
Meeting/Courting Period: We meet, find
our tastes are compatible in most all general areas,
that we are attracted to each other sexually and that we
just plain like each other. Also, we acknowledge that
I'm Dominant enough for you, you're submissive enough
for me and the Masochism/Sadism dichotomy works. When we
are together, you wear a Stainless Steel collar; it's
removed when you leave.
1st Level of Collaring: You become my
"boy" (Note: can be "man servant" or
"serving man") and address me as
"Trainer". We work out a 3 month Contract
between us, which basically states our expectations of
each other. I lock a Sterling Silver collar around your
neck, but I give you a key, so you can remove it when
it's absolutely necessary. You spend your weekends with
me but you remain living at home and working full
time... and I begin training you to become more to me
than just a "boy". If, by the end of the
Contract we can see that everything's working, we
proceed to Level 2. (Otherwise, we can either not sign a
new Contract and become friends, or we could extend it
for another 3 month period.)
2nd Level of Collaring: Now you become my
"submissive" and continue to address me as
"Trainer". We renegotiate our Contract, this
time for 6 to 9 months, fixing anything that didn't work
during Level 1 and adding new areas, if we wish. I lock
a White Gold collar around your neck, but I don't give
you a key. (The collar will be suitable for wear at all
times.) Outside of your work, you'll be my full time
serving boy... and you'll serve me in every way. If, by
the end of the 2nd level, we both adore each other and
are willing to make a commitment for the long term, we
proceed to Level 3. (Again, if things are not working,
we can become friends or extend the Contract.)
3rd Level of Collaring: Now, you
become my "slave" and you may address me as
your "Mistress". We renegotiate our Contract
once again, honing it down to the essentials. I have a
Platinum collar sautered around your neck, which you'll
wear as long as you're my slave, hopefully forever.
You'll move in with me and cut back your work to 3 days
a week (if possible) in order to serve me better, and
every year, on our anniversary, I'll offer to
renegotiate our Contract and remove your collar... and
you'll refuse, because you're happy serving me.
:-) (Or, again, we become friends.)
Reprinted
with permission from the archives of the SAADE Gazette.
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