Choosing the Right Vibrator

Whether you are a first-time investigator of things that go buzz in the night or an experienced toy enthusiast, buying a vibrator can be daunting. There are so many types to choose from, it can be hard to know where to start. This guide will give you a quick run-through of the available varieties. Bullets Vibrating bullets, also known as eggs, are the staple goody in many toyboxes. They are inexpensive, powerful and versatile. Most women require direct clitoral stimulation in order to achieve orgasm, and bullets provide this with intense vibration. You can put the bullet directly against your clitoris if you enjoy strong clitoral vibration, indirectly by circling it around the clitoris, or create a diffused vibration by keeping your labia closed and pressing it against the outer labia over the clitoral area. Try moving it all around the external genital area, and seeing where the vibration feels best. The bullet can also be popped into a condom and inserted vaginally. A good quality bullet like the Japanese-made Mini Pearl is an excellent option. Or if you find constant vibration too numbing, try a pulsing bullet like the Cyberflicker , which has several settings that let you enjoy either short bursts or continuous vibration. Pocket rockets These nifty little wands provide the same benefits as bullets, but can be more easily held and manipulated. Hold them like a pen and direct the vibration wherever you like. Excellent for direct clitoral stimulation. Try using it to circle your clitoris in rhythmic motions, or slide it up and down the shaft on the front or sides. You can try to directly stimulate the head of your clitoris too, but remember that for some women direct stimulation on the head is too intense to be pleasurable. If you like the idea of getting some quality time in the shower, try a waterproof Water Dancer . And for extra versatility, top your rocket with a Rabbit Sleeve to enjoy the sensation of diffused vibration through the silicone rabbit ears. Finger Vibes Similar in concept to the bullets and pocket rockets, but with a sleeve that attaches to the finger like a vibrating finger puppet, so you don’t have to worry about holding onto your toy while directing the stimulation. A great toy for people who have physical difficulty holding or grasping objects for extended periods of time. The Fukuoko is a good example of this type of toy. Dual vibes Dual vibes may just fulfil your ultimate fantasy, with clitoral, g-spot and general penetrative stimulation all at once. This family of vibes includes the Rabbit Habit, made famous on Sex In The City. Dual vibes have two components; the first one is a penetrative shaft that often wiggles or rotates to stimulate the g-spot, and in the case of the Rabbit Habit and Pearl Rabbit also contains pearls underneath the sturdy latex casing that rotate when the toy is turned on, creating a gentle stroking sensation. The second component is a vibrating clitoral stimulator, often shaped like a bunny, with two ears which lie nicely on either side of the clitoris for intense stimulation. They can be made out of softer but porous jelly, such as the Jack Rabbit (jelly is less expensive, but because it is porous we recommend using it with a condom), or a less porous, but still soft and easy to clean latex, such as the high quality Japanese made Pearl Rabbits. Lastly, there are the slightly firmer and completely nonporous silicone, such as the Fun Factory Mermaid dual vibe. Magic Wand The one, the only, and the original. The powerful plug-in Hitachi Magic wand has been recommended by sex therapists and doctors world-wide for women who have difficulty achieving orgasm. It creates a powerful, steady vibration that is used externally to stimulate the entire vaginal area including the clitoris. The powerful vibrations will stimulate blood flow as well, helping increase general arousal. Many women who have never been able to achieve orgasm by other means have had their first orgasm with the Magic Wand. There are also after-market attachments for the Magic Wand such as the G-Spotter , a pliable vinyl cap that fits snugly over the top and has a curved penetrative shaft for g-spot stimulation. Traditional vibrators These rod-shaped vibrators are what many women think of when they’re first shopping for a toy. If you enjoy penetration, and crave internal vibration, these toys may be perfect for you. Keep in mind that many women require more direct clitoral or g-spot stimulation than these vibes provide. However, you can get creative and use the vibe externally as well by laying it across your labia to create a delightful vibration that stimulates your clitoris and the entire genital area. If the vibes have a flared base, such as Buzz 1 , you can use them in a strap-on harness as well G-spot vibrators G-spot vibrators have a crook at the end which can be used to stimulate your g-spot, something many women find arousing either on its own or in conjunction with clitoral stimulation. Remember the g-spot is only about two thirds of a finger-length inside, on the front wall of your vagina. To find your g-spot, first try entering a finger and crooking it upward at the second knuckle. You may feel it with your finger as a slightly rougher spot. The sensation of g-spot stimulation can feel like a sudden sensitivity, a highly pleasurable arousal, or even a slight urge to urinate. Every woman is different and some women get no reaction to g-spot stimulation at all. Most women enjoy quite firm pressure on the g-spot, although some prefer more gentle stroking. If you like firmer sensation, you may want to try a hard plastic g-spot stimulator such as the G Spot Fantasy Massager For a softer silicone alternative, try the gently curved Pro Touch Anal toys The entire anal region is rich with nerve endings, and as long as you go slowly, start with a small toy, and use plenty of lubrication, experimentation in this area can be exquisitely pleasurable and completely non-painful. Men have the added sweet spot of the prostate, a gland that can be stimulated by inserting a toy or finger a few inches inside the anus, then gently stroking upwards. Vibration in the anal area can feel especially delightful. Try starting gently with a slender toy like the Adventure. Men may especially enjoy the Pro Touch with its curve that is perfectly shaped for prostate stimulation. We also recommend a thicker water-based lubricant for anal play, such as Hathor Aphrodisia or Probe Thick.