ABOUT US

Well, bisexual, kinky, polyamorous, and non-traditional to say the least and maybe a good place to start.

Together since 1992, and inseparable.

Sex positive! (As if it needs to be said).

Married, (he likes the tradition, she's neutral)

Polyspiritual, non-denominational, non-monotheistic, embracing the wisdom of multiple traditions, with respect for all.

Traditionally gender identified, accepting of alternatively gender identified others, and celebrating gender identity diversity.

Diversity positive neo-philes.

Our favorite food, sushi, and more sushi.  Asian cuisines in general.  

Non-smoking, infrequent drinkers, not into recreational drug use, respectful of others choices to alter brain chemistry and indulge in recreational substances.  Pro-legalization and decriminalization of related activities. 

Social humanitarian anarchists who trust that people can govern themselves and one another, we're just not used to having the responsibility and fear it.  

We haven't voted, yet, we're still waiting for a candidate running for any office who isn't warped.  So far our 'vote' has been to note vote, we think the system sucks, so we choose not to support it.  Occasionally spoil a ballot or two.

Cheese is tasty.

We love animals, have a little brindle boy Boston terrier pug cross dog, Iggy, and a Marmalade cat; Nikko.

We're really picky about our friends and sexual partners.  We love people in general, and are not picky in terms of respecting and caring for others, but try to make conscious healthy focused decisions about the people we become intimate with in our lives.  So even though we're sexually liberal, we're not really promiscuous, though, we fully support and enjoy people who revel in their choice to be promiscuous (hurray for sluts!)

Like all kinds of music (well, except country).

WOLFE:

Born April of 1971.  Aries, year of the boar,  but never boring and definitely more of a canine than a porcine.

6'2" brown hair (when not shaved) and eyes, usually around 215lbs.

Introspective, gentle, mellow, solid, calming, warm.

Loves to read fantasy and science fiction to drift off into the realm of alternative realities and dream.

Enjoys the occasional single malt scotch and dark beer.

BA in Anthropology.
Most of an MA in Counseling Psychology.
Long time martial artist experienced in multiple styles.

Relaxes with computer games and television.

In terms of BDSM, always a Dom.

KATT:

Born June of 1969, Gemini, year of the cock.  

5'9" brown hair (when not dyed any or all colours, when not shaved off, or when not covered with a wig) green eyes, and weight varies considerably, usually a BBW.

Passionate, loving, sensual, soft.

BA in psychology.
BFA in studio arts, major in printmaking and drawing.
Most of a BA in Anthropology.
MA in Counseling Psychology.
Adept in Kickboxing, has taught in the past.

Relaxes with a good book, TV, computer games, or working on the websites.

In terms of BDSM, switches, subs to Wolfe, usually wants to Domme everyone else.

HOW EROTIMANIA CAME TO BE

Erotimania started in April of 2000, as a small hobby site created by one kinky alternative couple, where we shared adult photos of our personal intimate life and journals of our daily goings on. 

We entered into the creation of Erotimania with the intention not to make material profit, but to create a venue to explore and share our views on sexuality and erotic living, and have stayed true to that through personal bankruptcy and personal life trials.

The site started out as a solo small location, and has grown and splintered out to include many specialized sites to highlight our interests and experiences as we've developed them.  Erotimania developing and growing as we do.

Challenging the all too frequent monster porn sites with their pop-ups and many tricks and turns to squeeze money from the sex seeking surfer, we took another path, and decided to try to provide an approach to 'porn' that was personal, intimate, caring, honest, and real.

Using our self-taught computer skills, and self taught photography skills, with our combined traditional (over?) education in sociology, anthropology, psychology and fine arts. We put our hearts and our hard work (and even our genitals) into creating and maintaining erotimania.

Running for the first year at a cost, rather than a profit.  We stuck with the long hours of coding and creating, and lots of happy sex, simply because we loved it, and still do.

Erotimania is still solely created, run and operated by us, Wolfe and Katt, out of our home.

As we grew we created new areas to add into Erotimania, and it became a hub to several sites, and continues to grow, with many upcoming plans for the future.  As we did when we started, we take anything we make through the sites, and re-invest it back into our ever growing world of erotic adventure.

We've created virtual art galleries, which we're dedicated to keeping free to showcase the talent of artists who brave the often controversial area of erotic art.

As well as e-cards to send alternative messages of love and passion, because we felt there were gaps in what was available, with no outlet for people wishing to exchange an intimate greeting card from an alternative relationship.

We've always been very influenced by our members and guests, the directions erotimania has taken has often been as a direct result of those relationships, and maintaining those open dialogues.  We're continually trying to find new ways to connect with YOU!

Why?

Because we don't agree with the common Western cultural implication that sex and sexuality, mainstream, and alternative, is bad, evil, dirty or naughty.  Sex is one of our most intimate, primal activities, at the core of creation and creativity.  It is the closest two (or more) people can get.  It engages the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.  Sex is powerful, beautiful, wonderful stuff.

We want to get the message out, that people are beautiful, all shapes, sizes, ages, gender identities, sexual orientations, kinks, preferences and lifestyles.

We want to create erotica with a message.  That it's healthy and okay to indulge and enjoy your sexuality.  There isn't a wrong way for consenting adults to be intimate or to feel sexual.  We don't need to be afraid of sexual diversity, or gender diversity.  Sex can be serious, and it can also be a form of play.  Erotica can even be about things that aren't about sex.  The world of fetish is very varied, and beauty and arousal can be found in so many places.  Let's celebrate, rather than condemn, our differences, and the beauty and power to be found in the realm of the erotic.

What the world needs, maybe, is just more erotimaniacs...